3. THE LAW OF WISDOM

Wisdom erases Karma. If you can learn your lessons harmoniously through Love and Wisdom then you will diminish or erase your dis-harmonious karma. Many learn fastest through pain and suffering because one can see the direct consequences of their dis-harmonious actions and intentions. Wisdom (past life awareness and present life learning) allows you to detach from painful and challenging situations with love, which will ease your suffering Painful and challenging situations provide us an opportunity to transmute the Disharmony with Love and Wisdom, in order to balance our karma.

2. THE LAW OF REINCARNATION & KARMA

Karma is also known as the The Law of Cause and Effect, (e.g., you get what you give, you reap what you sow, newtons law) Until you have resolved your Karma and fulfilled your Dharma, you will continue to reincarnate into sequential lifetimes upon the earth. You decide what lessons you need to learn for each life experience. Whenever you act with intention (actions being your thoughts, emotions, words and deeds and the motive, intent and desire) you create karma. Dis-harmonious acts, are rooted in fear-based emotions, must be eventually balanced and resolved. When you can live a life of perfect harmony, liberation will follow.

LAW 1. THE LAW OF HARMONY

This Law supersedes even the fundamental Law of Karma, because the purpose of karma is to attain harmony and balance. The universe is perfectly balanced. When you are in harmony you are in balance. There is nothing permanent without harmony as harmony can be considered another name for Love. Once you have evolved to the position of living an entire life in harmony, you are free from the wheel of reincarnation.

The 50 Primary Universal Laws for the Month of July and August

For the month of July and August, I will be focusing on the 50 Spiritual and Natural Laws. In exploration of the 50 Primary Universal Laws. The universe is perfectly balanced by natural and moral laws--which are regulatory vibrations to maintain order. When you work within the laws, you can be assured of eventual positive outcome; when the laws are transgressed, you can be assured of suffering--the only purpose of which is to teach a better way.

Each day I will highlight a Law, it's definition and my commendatory.  Please feel free to make comments and ask questions. Enjoy!

Sexual Soul Ties:Why You Think You're with You're Soul Mate/ Twin Flame

Although we live in a time of sexual revolution and “freedom”, this does not negate the power and purpose of sexual energy! Sexual energy is a creative energy that can be used not only for the purpose of procreation, and improved health conditions, the energy behind the act of sex is trans mutative, meaning the use of the thought power along with the sexual energy, has the ability to switch thoughts of a physical nature to thoughts of any other nature. This energy can allow one to achieve great genius and success!

When sexual energy is not harnessed for the purpose of procreation or transmutation, this energy run the risk of transforming into a soul tie or soul bond!

Although Soul ties or bonds have a strong negative religious connotation, they do have great negative affects and consequences. For the sake if keeping things simple in this article, a soul tie is simply a merging of radiant sexual energy binding a person to another. These binds are usually the ether cords that holds martial energy, but they are not limited to marriage.

Within these etheric cords are the radiant energy and information of the soul. The soul intentions of being, the soul's karma and soul's strength. This can not only cause confusion, upset for those involved, soul ties or bond carry karmic consequences as well!

I heard an analogy once about the dynamics and power of soul ties that sums them up complete; Imagine two pieces of cardboard. Now let's say each side of each piece has glue on them. Then take the two pieces and place them on top of each other and wait about 20 minutes to an hour, then pull them apart. Now when you pull these two pieces of cardboard apart, it will clearly show that they do not separate easily. You will see that on each piece of the cardboard, there are fragments of the of the other.

Now, with the understanding that we are not dealing with something as tangible and solid s a cardboard box, but the dynamics of spiritual energy. We can replace the fragmented and frayed pieces of cardboard, with the ethic cords of the other person, which includes a person's karma, intentions, strengths and weaknesses.

Now, in the case of identifying whether or not someone is actually your soul mate or twin flames, this can create mass confusion, conflict and disappointment!

I have worked with hundreds of clients over many years who seek my help in understanding the dynamics of their connect, and I have found that a great majority of these clients that have been sexually involved with someone they feel strongly attached to have the most difficult time knowing whether that person is indeed their soul mate or twin flame, especially when that person pulls away completely, or comes in and out of their lives. Why is this so difficult, you may ask? I will explain here.

As explained. The sexual energy, just like all energy holds information. Each individual has a person for being, karma, personality deficiencies and strengths. Once yo merge that energy with someone else in the case of sex, not only are you holing your own energy, you are literally carrying another. Now if you are a sensitive person, carrying someone Else's energy can overload and disrupt their entire internal circuitry! Yeah, it's that's profound!

Also, in the case of someone who is really wanting a relationship. Wanting to love and beloved by someone, it's especially heartbreaking and confusing when they have “given themselves” to someone and nothing transpires from the act but continued confusion.

What's happening is, you may as well be picking up on aspects of a person that does want a lasting and loving relationship, but you may also be picking up on the fact that they have internal fears of abandonment and commitment that can be triggering their disappearing act.

In the case of the one who keeps coming back and forth or who suffer from the feelings of intense loneliness without that person being with them. You have to keep in mind that not only are you carrying their energy, they are carrying yours as well. So the both of you become a sort of “energy hub” holding the familiar energy dynamic of the both of you.

Within this hub of energy, there is a pulsation of sorts, movement, an information energetic highway flowing through you and the other. And each time the both of you have a sexual encounter, the energy builds and the hub expands.

This hub is similar to the connection “hub” that soul mates and twin flames are surrounded by. I mean, within these hubs telepathic messages can also be transmitted, making it seem that it is a sign and symptom that you are indeed with your soul mate or twin flame.

In truth, the only way to know whether or not you have a soul connection with the other is to measure whether the connection is life affirming and positive or whether you feel used and energetically drained by it. My advice to others of course not to have sexual exchange with anyone unless you are prepared for the energetically and emotional consequences. If you find yourself continuously drawn to the energetically draining pull, this karmic indicator is trying to get you to take a deeper look at who you are and WHY you respond as you do to anything or anybody giving you less than you deserve!

Why my beloved is pulling away

Spiritual relationships do not operate like the physical relationships we have grown addicted to. In a spiritual relationship, two people are drawn together because their souls are ready to evolve further along their path and their souls have sent out a 'ready signal' to the one that shares a similar vibration frequency.

In meeting, the bond seems instant, a feeling of finally being home. This feeling is actually a soul recognition. In a spiritual relationship, you form a relationship from the ethereal down to the denser physical level. The bond is very deep and very beautiful. But for the one that needs the most healing out of the pair, this bonding process is very frightening.

Every one of my clients that come to me seek me out because they are perplexed by their beloveds' 'wacky' behavior. One minute they are in deep love with them, ready to give them their life, then the next minute they won't answer their phone, emails or text like they do not exist. This leaves the other partner not only confused, but extremely frustrated and in heart wrenching pain.

Why does your beloved do these things? FEAR. This dynamic is call the 'push-pull dance' and its a necessary part of the bonding process in connecting from a spiritual relationship. Most forget that the coming together for any relationship is for the purpose of spiritual growth, first...all else is fringe benefits. Relationships are our incubator for development. In this sacred space, we have the opportunity to correct erroneous thoughts and behaviors about ourselves and others. We have been miseducated to believe that relationships SHOULD BE this smooth sailing paradise where we lick each other until our skin gets ashy...wrong!

When two connect, you will usually find one who holds the anchoring light and one who hold the ambivalent light. Although the love is very strong between the two, it appears that the one who holds the 'ambivalent light' is playing games, but on a deeper level, they are afraid of the intensity of the union. This intensity filtrates down to the soul of a person, its the light of love. The intensity of this love is unlike anything they have ever felt before, so they do not know how to respond, but to run. They come back because they know from a deeper level that this is their path to enlightenment.

So what does the one who holds the 'anchoring light' do? Stay the course, have compassion and deepen your spiritual practice. You too are being quickened in your spirit, but the lesson is different, the lesson is on trust and faith. Resist responding in anger and lashing out by playing games. learn to process the feelings that come up in creative ways such as writing, singing, dancing or any energetic release techniques.

Relationships are changing to it's original intent from Spirit, so all the other junk and misconceptions that we have accumulated must be eradicated. This process must be done on evry level of our being. Those of us that has the ability to hod greater spiritual light and the healing capacity are usually the 'front runners' in this evolutionary stage. be brave and continue to trust and walk your path, no one will be left alone, no one!

Your Friend,
Keesha

Heart Energy Healing

You would think that when the heart chakra awakens it would be a super time of celebration. That we then will have the capacity to give and receive love without bounds; NOPE! I would like for you to look at a heart awakening like this: Say you are walking around your home with all of the lights off. You stumble over things a bit, but not too much because you have become quite familiar with your home and know where the big sharp furniture and objects are that can hurt you; so you know how to avoid those things, but still you are stumbling. As you are stumbling, say someone turns the lights on, now you can not only see the furniture and the sharp objects that you have learned to navigate around, you also see the little objects on the floor that you had no idea on how to avoid, but posed a huge stumbling block for you. Eureka, you see it all, but in seeing the room lit up, you not only notice the things within it, you also notice that the rooms are untidy. Because of the light, you realize that the room can no longer remain untidy, so now you have to go about the business of cleaning it up.

Energetic Impressions of the Heart

When the heart chakra Is awakened through the power and volition of Unconditional love, yes, we feel the light airy feeling tone of what we term love, and we may also feel connected to all things around us, and some of us, at or around the time of our awakening, will become conscious of our Divine Counterpart. These are the outcomes that we absolutely love and feel are a blessing. Yet, just like a room that was once dark that is now full of light, you will begin to feel and see the blaring contrast of things within ourselves that do not love, and are not connected. Now depending on your heart chakras’ energetic impressions that were programmed within us as a child, we usually will react to love or relationships in one or two ways; you may respond to love relationship by OVERCOMPENSATING, having a fixation on your relationship, engaging all of your energy into it. Another response could be that you can become AVOIDANT, you disassociate yourself from the feelings or relationship, you minimize the experience and pull your energy away.

Early Childhood Experiences



We experience life through using our energy. We respond to the various experiences of life according to the imprints or impressions that are etched in our chakras or energy centers. Our chakras or energy centers usually are developed in parallel with our physical development in childhood. As we learn to become accustomed to the people and world around us as a child, we also learn how to respond energetically to what’s around us. Say for example you grew up in a large family and you are the youngest child. As a child, you feel the flurry of busy , larger people surrounding you. There is so much energy swirling around you, and although you may be getting your physical needs met, you are having a hard time as a child getting your emotional needs attended to. So, a child usually respond in one or two ways, you either INCREASE your energy in your heart chakra, because you feel a longing, a yearning for more emotional attention, you feel as though you need to exaggerate your behavior so that someone, anyone can pay attention to you. In another instance, you can respond my DECREASING your energy. By decreasing, you pull back your energy and go within yourself, sort of like a means of protecting yourself from all that seemingly overwhelming and dangerous energy, you retreat. These two states usually trigger an adrenaline response in our body known as fight or flight. This energetic response to our environment becomes programmed into our energy center by the adrenal system, therefore whenever we come into a situation that resembles that feeling tone of love , we automatically react from the energetic imprints of our earlier years. And in the case of a child that experienced any type of abuse or neglect, these two reactions are even stronger!

Balancing the Energy of the Heart



The soul mate and twin flame connection is a journey towards unconditional love, but most believe that this love is automatically within us and it has to be deflected outward towards another person or groups of people. But the journey BEGINS WITHIN FIRST. The heart centered awakening acts as a catalyst to get us to see how we have been functioning in the name of love. And when our beloved pull away from us, we have an even greater opportunity to see and feel our reaction to what we call love.



Prior to our awakening, we have responded to love through those two coping mechanism: Avoidance or Overcompensation, and when we have experienced a deep dissatisfaction or pain in our previous relationships, we no clue as to why, often blaming our partners for our inner angst. But when the heart awakens, we find that we can no longer respond to our soul mates and twin flames through our hardwired coping mechanisms. Through much pain and confusion, we find ourselves going in circles trying to get our beloveds to be with us, and not understanding that the heart must first come into balance before experiencing and appreciating any real love. We begin by first identifying what is our coping mechanism style, is it avoidance or overcompensation? And here’s the kicker, usually our Divine Counterparts imbalance energy in the heart mirrors our own!
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Balancing the Avoidant Heart Energy



The imbalanced heart energy that copes through avoidance approaches relationships from a deficient point of view. Their behavior is such that they are easily manipulated in relationships, they over extend themselves, they pick inappropriate people to be involved with, they fear intimacy and eventually lack empathy for others. They also suffer from feelings of powerlessness and low self esteem.



<p>To balance this energy so that we can respond much more presently and authentically to love, we can:
 Begin by setting the INTENTION to open ourselves up! We must muster up the courage to feel our fears AND resist retreating into fear or chaotic relationships that fulfills our dysfunctional perceptions and response to love.
 We can further along our healing by taking time throughout our day by doing deliberate breathe work. Inhaling air fully, allowing the oxygen to fill our chest, this will in turn open up and clear the heart chakra.
 Journaling is also another method to clear our subconscious fears and also helps us recognize our patterns of avoidance and to identify when we are being triggered.
 Lastly, we can join a support group such as Codependents Anonymous or Al Anon Family Group or any spiritually-based confidential support group that focuses on creating healthy relationships as well as self love and care.


Balancing the Overcompensating Heart Energy



The Overcompensating coping mechanism is demanding of others and possessive. They fixate on the behaviors of those that they want attention from. They parade around as those they are being loving, but really is a mask that hides the truth of their motives, and that is to get someone else to fill the energy of their heart. Their thinking and behavior becomes codependent.

To balance this energy, the person that has overcompensating energy can do the following:
 Set the Intention to take full responsibility for addressing their own emotional needs and self love, and release others from doing what only they can do for themselves.
 They can FORGIVE those in their past that they believed have robbed them from experiencing healthy loving interactions.

 They can also do breath work, in addition to doing a simple exercise of extending their arms out as they are inhaling. This will open and loosen up the overabundance of energy in their heart chakra center.
 Lastly, join a spiritually-based support group that will support them in reprogramming their love programming for self and others.</p>
<p>In conclusion, balancing the heart energy is a spiritual journey that we must take responsibility for. When we experience the confusion and pain from our Divine counterpart, let this be an indicator to YOU that there is some balancing that needs to be done IN YOU. We must resist focusing our attention on their behavior and blaming them for not meeting our ‘needs’, and place the focus back onto ourselves!