The TRUTH will always reveals it's self

As an empath I can literally feel my clients heartbreak when I read the energy dynamics between them and the male or female they believe  and is their "soulmate" or "twin flame". I truthful explain to them that the person that they have been pining for for months and even years are NOT their "soulmate" or "twin flame" but actually a catalyst for their spiritual development!
First there is a  a large gulp in their throat chakra area almost preventing them from wailing out like a disappointed infant. Then slowly I feel their heart chakra deflate like a balloon releasing air. Then there is a small burning feeling rising up their spine coming from their root chakra. And depending on how tightly their belief is held within them will determine  if my client will allow their crown chakra to  open or shutt down to  receive the remainder of the reading.

Leon Festinger's theory of cognitive dissonance focuses on how humans strive for internal consistency. An individual who experiences inconsistency (dissonance) tends to become psychologically uncomfortable, and is motivated to try to reduce this dissonance—as well as actively avoid situations and information likely to increase it.^[1] 

Although my clients have been enduring the worst kind of hell- neglect, disrespect, physical abuse, deceit and lies etc.,  from what they believe is this their "beloved"  they  not only have the truth that they are NOT  with in a soulmate or twin flame, they also have the visceral experience as well. Most clients would rather argue with me instead of hearing WHY that particular person is in there and how to rise out of their current misery. 
My clients are intelligent and creative people yet there they are experiencing the bitter truth breaking down all their preconceived beliefs.

 How is it that the great majority of my clients  hold strong to their beliefs in the face of a mountain of evidence that tells them otherwise? Easy They  are experiencing " love deficiencies". A person that is experiencing Love Deficiency are starving for a spiritual union with some. Although they see and experience the inconsistency of words and actions from their "beloved", they ignore them holding out the hope that things will change, they dont want to see the truth for what it is. They absolutely will not open their mind and spirit  that what they are REALLY experiencing! 

Relationships are the incubator for spiritual growth, all relationships, but  especially those of the romantic nature. It seems that these type of connects are the ones that our Higher Selves use to get our attention for us to pay attention to many inner wounds that prevents us from truly living a life free from re-experiencing our early childhood and adolescent hurts, abandonment and confusion.

To a Love Deficient person who has most likely never experienced examples of healthy and happy love relationship. they may not understand healthy boundaries, communications and respect either. So when someone who captures their heart in ways they have never felt, they want to posses that person and when that person leaves their experience or will not commit to stay in their experience, instead of letting go and move on with their lives, they find that they have a hard time doing so.So by the time they have a session or two with me they feel angry and duped  by the universe for not giving them a chance  FINALLY get the love they feel they DESERVE!

 Those who are experiencing love deficiency will ALWAYS look for someone else to try to fill up the hole in their hearts. They have great difficulty being by themselves and without being in a romantic relationship. They look for their partner to do the impossible and they are constantly frustrated by their romances because they have no yet learned to turn inward  for the truest love they will ever receive!  These are the things I want yo to ask yourself: What behavior I am allowing my "beloved" to get away with that I KNOW is against what I believe is not loving, attentive and kind? What red flags that I ignored and simply called it something else? What do I believe I will gain from allowing myself to be abused, ignored or abandoned? And MOST IMPORTANTLY, what past experiences of this pain, longing and abandonment remind of my current situation? If you take an open and honest inventor of both yor past and current situation you will begin to start seeing the dynamics that are in place to support you in healing your lack of self love and pat pains.
If you are having a difficult time identifying these thing on your own, please feel free to contact me for a session or two. Many Blessings, Keesha

Why Signs and symptoms may or may not mean this is your soul mate or twin flame!

All of my clients hire me because they believe they may be with or someone their soul mate or twin flame. By the time they get to me, they have had about 20 or more readings by many psychic intuitive. They are confused and drained. Confused because some advisors tell them “ yes, indeed, this is your twin flame.” Then, when shit start going left, they call their advisor again, crying in tears. Their heart is shattered, they are trembling, can't breathe! All of their dreams of finally being with the love of their life is looking very dim. In desperation, they pull out their credits card, hoping that it will be the last time, and they connect with an advisor, any advisor, a few dozen if they have to, until they reach the one advisor that reassures them that, “all will be well”.

What in the hell is going on? And if this  is you, I am going to tell you exactly what's going on. Brace yourself, you may not like what I have to say, but if you listen, you will save yourself a hell of a lot of heartache, confusion and mula! Ready?

The problem is YOU! ALL OF IT, YOU! The signs and symptoms you swear is indicating that “he” or“she” is the one, that's YOURS too boo! When they pull away and act like an ass, although you claim that you do not believe that it's because of you, it is YOU!

Unless and until you understand the Universal Laws, you will be jerked around until infinite. The Universe can do this with you with it's eyes closed, honey!

The Law of attraction says, “Attention goes where energy flows. You attract what you are, and that which you concentrate upon." If you are negative then you draw in and experience negativity. If you are Loving, then you draw in and experience Love. You can only attract to you those qualities which you posess. If you want Peace and Harmony in your life, you must become Peaceful and Harmonious. Like vibration attracts like vibration.


Then the Law of Belief say, “you can have anything you want if you can give up the belief that you can't have it, and as long as what you want doesn't conflict with someone else s belief. For example, If you desire a fulfilling relationship, but demand it to be with a particular person, then you are not operating in Harmony with the Universe. And there are many many more laws that can explain why, you almost had “him” or “her”, but no cigar!

Listen, the advisors are not telling you wrong, they are reading your ever fluctuating vibration, as well as your “beloveds”. So you cannot get mad at them, nor yourself because you truly are innocent and dare I say, ignorant. The laws are alive and working wonderfully, even though.

Because I KNOW the Laws, when I work with a client, I can care less about what he or she did to you, because I KNOW that it does not matter, and I KNOW, you are on a crazy hamster wheel leading you to NO WHERE! When I work with my clients, I work with YOU! I assist you in loving YOU, so that you can finally feel the love the Universe is delivering to you, once you ALLOW it!

The Law of Self Worth says, “you can only attract to you that which you feel worthy of. Your self esteem is critical to your happiness and success. You are not what you have and you are not what you do. Beneath your fear programming, you are perfect--an enlightened soul fully self-actualized, and a living example of unconditional Love. it is only lifetimes of fear-based programming that are keeping you from acknowledging who you really are. The more you can let go of the fears, the higher your self esteems and the more options you will have, and the more risks you will take. The better you like yourself, the better others will like you, and the more worthy you will feel. “

It's all about YOUR happiness! Hell, the Universe KNOWS what you want, the ESSENCE of what you want, and when you learn to detach, trust and allow the Universe to deliver to you what you want, you will be more than fulfilled! In the meantime, get a hold of yourself, literally and LEARN exactly who you are and what you REALLY want. I don't blow smoke up my clients ass. I provide the guidance, the truth that keeps this world on it's axis,  our job love is to KNOW where you fit in this big beautiful complex world, and enjoy the ride! You are here to learn about control, loss and regaining your POWER!